feat(09-05): ThemeSessionBridge + ThemeToggle write-through to /api/me/theme

- Create ThemeSessionBridge.tsx: useEffect compares session.user.theme to
  next-themes value; calls setTheme(serverTheme) on mismatch; validates
  against 3-string allowlist ('light'|'dark'|'system'); renders null
- Mount <ThemeSessionBridge /> as first child of <AuthProvider> in app/layout.tsx
- Modify ThemeToggle: writeTheme() calls setTheme() then fire-and-forget
  PUT /api/me/theme; silent catch for network errors (best-effort desktop UX)

app/layout.tsx

@@ -7,6 +7,7 @@ import { CommandPalette } from "@/components/navigation/command-palette";
 import { TaglineFooter } from "@/components/branding/tagline-footer";
 import { Toaster } from "sonner";
 import { AuthProvider } from "@/components/auth/auth-provider";
+import { ThemeSessionBridge } from "@/components/mobile/profile/ThemeSessionBridge";
 
 // IBM Plex Sans replaces the brand-mandated Helvetica/Arial.  The 2013
 // standards guide called for Helvetica Bold for headers and Helvetica
@@ -69,6 +70,7 @@ export default function RootLayout({
           disableTransitionOnChange
         >
           <AuthProvider>
+            <ThemeSessionBridge />
             <div className="min-h-screen bg-background flex flex-col">
               <AppNavigation />
               <main className="flex-1">{children}</main>

components/mobile/profile/ThemeSessionBridge.tsx

@@ -0,0 +1,38 @@
+'use client';
+
+/**
+ * ThemeSessionBridge (THEME-03 / D-16, D-17).
+ *
+ * On session load and after sign-in, compares session.user.theme to the
+ * next-themes useTheme() value and calls setTheme(session.user.theme) if
+ * different. Server is canonical; this is the bridge that enforces it.
+ *
+ * Renders nothing.
+ */
+
+import { useEffect } from 'react';
+import { useTheme } from 'next-themes';
+import { useSession } from '@/lib/auth-client';
+
+type SessionUserWithTheme = { theme?: 'light' | 'dark' | 'system' | string };
+
+export function ThemeSessionBridge() {
+  const { data: session } = useSession();
+  const { theme, setTheme } = useTheme();
+
+  useEffect(() => {
+    if (!session?.user) return;
+    const serverTheme = (session.user as SessionUserWithTheme).theme;
+    if (
+      serverTheme === 'light' ||
+      serverTheme === 'dark' ||
+      serverTheme === 'system'
+    ) {
+      if (serverTheme !== theme) {
+        setTheme(serverTheme);
+      }
+    }
+  }, [session?.user, theme, setTheme]);
+
+  return null;
+}

components/theme-toggle.tsx

@@ -15,6 +15,21 @@ import {
 export function ThemeToggle() {
   const { setTheme, theme } = useTheme()
 
+  // Write the new theme choice through to the server so session.user.theme
+  // stays canonical. Fire-and-forget — ThemeSessionBridge re-syncs from
+  // session on next session refresh if the request fails.
+  const writeTheme = (next: 'light' | 'dark' | 'system') => {
+    setTheme(next)
+    fetch('/api/me/theme', {
+      method: 'PUT',
+      headers: { 'Content-Type': 'application/json' },
+      body: JSON.stringify({ theme: next }),
+    }).catch(() => {
+      // Silent fail on network error — the desktop affordance is best-effort.
+      // The mobile profile Theme section is the explicit-error UX.
+    })
+  }
+
   return (
     <DropdownMenu>
       <DropdownMenuTrigger asChild>
@@ -25,15 +40,15 @@ export function ThemeToggle() {
         </Button>
       </DropdownMenuTrigger>
       <DropdownMenuContent align="end">
-        <DropdownMenuItem onClick={() => setTheme("light")}>
+        <DropdownMenuItem onClick={() => writeTheme("light")}>
           <Sun className="mr-2 h-4 w-4" />
           <span>Light</span>
         </DropdownMenuItem>
-        <DropdownMenuItem onClick={() => setTheme("dark")}>
+        <DropdownMenuItem onClick={() => writeTheme("dark")}>
           <Moon className="mr-2 h-4 w-4" />
           <span>Dark</span>
         </DropdownMenuItem>
-        <DropdownMenuItem onClick={() => setTheme("system")}>
+        <DropdownMenuItem onClick={() => writeTheme("system")}>
           <Monitor className="mr-2 h-4 w-4" />
           <span>System</span>
         </DropdownMenuItem>